Hmmm, so I thought I was on my way towards "status: relationship" with my now ex, but evidently that is a hard "no". I'm in...shock. Granted we had only been on five dates, but five dates is enough to feel the vibe like "okay, we doin this". Up til then I was in the interview phase, he asked a lot of questions. Now that I think about it....it was kind of like I was on a game show. He also fully investigated my apartment. With a black light as well. He contacted a few of my friends for references. Also, he ordered a background check. Then on our last date, he presented all of the information and why we were not compatible. Got up from the table and left.