Isn't that all speed dating is anyway? If you can only last 30 seconds in a convo that's gonna make me question how long you're gonna last other places. I'm not interested in speed marrying or speed procreating so why is it so important to bust out the dating process? I'm not looking for a quick fix to my loneliness. A fast courtship is gonna lead to a fast break eventually, that's what my life's wisdom has taught me. If you are Speedy Gonzalez before I know it you're just Speedy Gone-all-togeths.
As a woman I want to get to know you, pick your brain. That's why men like speed dating. IMO men are scared, and rightfully so, that we are going to uncover some dark secret, realize they aren't all that or generally F everything up if they talk to us for longer than 30 seconds. I hate to break it to you men, but 1 out of the 4 guys that I talked to when I tried speed dating couldn't even last that long! One guy told me about his erectile dysfunction, another bored me to death talking about his golden retriever, one admitted he had a drinking problem without even saying those words and there were more.
Speed dating must've been created by a man cause one thing women value is quality time. If you are looking for a friend, partner, someone to talk to then let's take the time to get to know each other. Otherwise, you can get your quickie from someone else.